On 15th July 1999, he was deployed on the Line of Control (during Operation Vijay/Kargil War) when the Pakistanis started shelling the Indian forward positions.
He heard the sound of the first mortar shell fly just over his bunker and land further behind. He felt and heard the sound of the 2nd second shell as it came straight towards him. It exploded 2 meters away from him. The foot-long, 2-inch diameter shell had a kill zone of 8 meters. The blast sent thousands of shrapnel pieces in every direction.
He felt the fiery stings as pieces of red-hot shrapnel entered and shredded the right side of his body, from the torso down to his legs. Blood gushed out of his body as if from a water fountain. The pain was excruciating; he cried out. Slowly he lost consciousness. He arrived at the hospital so covered in blood and guts that he was initially given up for dead!
On the night of the 18th he heard the words, “Son, I think I need to amputate your right leg.”
Major D.P.Singh looked down at his shredded and gangrene infected right leg and replied, “Doctor, I can see it myself, there is nothing much left below my knee...do what you must”...
He returned to civilian life, after serving the country for another 10 years, but he had lost a few body parts in the war. He had lost a part of his intestine. He had also lost his right leg through the knee. He had lost large chunks of flesh in his left leg and had permanently damaged the meniscal cartilage in his left knee. He would never fully recover his hearing ability, which was damaged with the blast. (A few years after the war, while still in the army, he underwent a major operation for a tumor on his urinary bladder)
What stayed with him from the war however, were 40 pieces of shrapnel embedded in his body. They are lodged all over the place: in his ribs, lungs, liver, elbow and leg.
Few people commence their journey to the start-line of a marathon with 40 pieces of shrapnel inside their body, a drastically compromised intestine, acoustic trauma, a massively compromised left leg and a compromised urinary bladder.
The first time Major Singh went for a run wearing his prosthetic leg, the jarring from the vibration, caused a small piece of shrapnel lodged in his rib to dislodge. It caused him excruciating pain. The doctor advised that an operation would be necessary to remove it. At that point, Major Singh had just started motivating a group of fellow ‘challengers’ to run. He figured that if he was sidelined after the surgery, his comrades would get demotivated and the group would fall apart. He decided that he would not get operated. He figured that he would continue running and thereby continue jarring the shrapnel piece until it re-lodged itself somewhere else inside his body and stopped paining!
Sometimes in life, the people who inspire us the most are not the winners of the race, but those who strive valiantly and shed their sweat and blood to simply be a part of race day.
My job on this race day was to run alongside Major Singh and occasionally interview him for the Star Plus Television Channel. In the process, I had the privilege to receive a life-lesson in courage and tenacity that I shall never forget.
The day had started for me at hotel Le Meridian. I woke up at 4:15 am and went to the loo. Only a runner understands the importance of bowel movements on race day. The fact that a clean GI system is a luxury, can only be understood by a runner who has suffered a tummy problem half way through a marathon.
I later went for a nice hot shower and changed into my black branded T-shirt (Only a non-runner Marketing Executive would ask a runner to wear a black T-shirt on a hot and sunny day) and shorts. It took me 30 seconds to wear my socks and another 30 seconds to wear my shoes and then I went down to the coffee shop and enjoyed a sumptuous breakfast. By 5:00 am I was seated in the same bus as Kenya’s Edwin Kipyego for a ride to the start line.
I met the Major inside the production control room. He was accompanied by his partner Dr. Dimple Bharati. She told me that she planned to meet us several times on the route to give him his energy drink and later run the last few km with us. She explained that due to the massive operation on his intestine, the Major dehydrated very soon. I assured her that I would make sure that we pick-up water from all the water stops.
We made our way to the start-line and were interviewed for the TV viewing audience. The open category run started at 6:40 am. Within a few hundred meters, I noticed that the sun was out and it was already very humid and hot. I braced for a rough day ahead. The Major was quiet and focused. I wanted him to set his own pace and so stayed just a few inches behind him. I noticed his gait. This was the first time that I was running alongside someone wearing a prosthetic leg. With each step it looked as if he was landing on a thorn that pierced further inside his right foot. It seemed very painful. It was not a smooth stride also because his left leg was severely damaged. It dawned on me just how hard it was for him to run.
All around us were runners who were focused on their finish times. They sped past us. However, hundreds of runners noticed us and clapped for the Major. Many seemed to know him personally. They shouted, “Go Major”, “Major you are great.” “Major you inspire me”.
A girl hugged him and said, “Sir, I used to only run the 6k dream run, but YOU inspired me to run the 21k this year”. The Major answered, “I’ll give you another hug, when to move up to the 42k”
A few minutes later, we were joined by Colonel Rana Sinha. He told me that he looked upon Major Singh as his hero and inspiration and that he intended to run and support us. I was relieved to have a friend together because I could feel that this was going to be a rough day with the heat rising incessantly.
The heat kept increasing by the minute and so did the humidity. At about 4 km the Major stopped to adjust his prosthetic. He held his thigh and shook it violently, as if to make it settle inside the socket of the prosthetic. I was flabbergasted. I stood behind him to make sure that nobody ran into him. It was an action I had never seen before. I was in shock. I could not believe this man was running. I later looked at his face. All I could see was determination. This was a look of a man who was simply focused on the finish line. If there was pain, and I am sure there was, he did not show it.
As we reached the 7k mark we were approaching India Gate (Indian Army’s Tomb of the Unknown Soldier). I have run this race 3 years in succession and each time I reach India Gate the uppermost thought in my mind is: I wish the marathon photographer manages to catch me with India Gate in the background. It would make for a nice picture on my wall. As we approached India gate, I had pretty much the same thought this time too.
But then, I saw the Major look up towards India Gate and snap a Salute.
I had a tear in my eye. I love my India too, but am I doing enough? I made a resolution to redouble my efforts to help the kids suffering from Cancer and being treated at the Tata Hospital.
We kept running. We were all sweating profusely. We kept drinking water. As we passed the medical tents we noticed more and more people flocking towards them. This was going to be a long hard day!
To take the Major’s mind off the heat, humidity and pain, I told him about my routine from the time I had woken up at 4:15 am. I asked him how his day had started.
I learnt that Major Singh had a slightly different start to his day.
Because parts of his intestine were shredded in the blast and later removed in surgery, he has all sorts of issues in clearing his GI system. It took him a lot of time to clear his stomach in the morning.
Then he had to wear his prosthetic. It had taken me 30 seconds to wear my socks. It was a little different for the Major.
His right leg was amputated through his knee, but there were still shrapnel embedded in his lower thigh. The skin which grew over these wounds was soft tissue, which was very sensitive. He had to prepare each of these areas by first applying some cream and then putting tape over them to protect them from friction.
Then, there was the question of wearing the prosthetic leg itself. The stub where the knee was amputated was is a highly sensitive area. It comes into contact with the socket of the prosthetic leg. The socket is made of hard plastic. Soft skin against a hard material! So, he had to prepare the bottom of his amputated knee enable it to withstand the friction and pounding it is about to receive.
The prosthetic socket is round, the knee stub is round. He needed to align the prosthetic exactly right. When I wear my shoe, the shoe automatically aligns itself with my foot. But a prosthetic must to be worn exactly at the correct angle with reference to his thigh and the rest of his body. With no real reference point it takes a lot of patience and skill to put on the prosthetic.
Once the leg is worn, he needs to make sure it holds tight around his thigh so that it won’t move as he runs. Even a few mm of play/movement will cause friction and inflame his skin. He puts more tape and ties a few bandages around the socket to hold it tight against his thigh.
It had taken him close to 3 hours to get ready to leave for the start-line.
I didn’t know what to say. I was in shock. We were clearly not running the same race. I was running an easy 21k; however it seemed to me that this man was climbing Mt Everest. He had a prosthetic in one leg which was incredibly uncomfortable to wear while his other leg had chunks of flesh missing. Not only was he climbing up Mt Everest but he was doing it blindfolded.
But I was wrong. He didn’t seem to think so. He told me that he hated the idea that people are called, ‘Physically Challenged’. He said that he was a ‘Challenger’ and he wanted the world to know that there was nothing he could not do that anyone else could.
Life had thrown down a gauntlet at him. And he had no hesitation in picking it up.
He had started an organization called The Challenging Ones (TCO) with the idea of motivating all challengers to overcome their limitations and partake in sports and adventure activities. He said that he had wanted to partake in the trials for the London Paralympics Games but our country lacked well trained prosthetic technicians to assist him with prosthetic fitment. He said he wanted organizations to come forward to understand the need for better prosthetic technicians in our country.
I ran alongside him in awed silence. On the way back towards the finish he once again saluted the India Gate.
By the time we reached 15k, the heat and humidity were just debilitating; it seemed like heaven was pouring fire down upon us, the heat radiating from the tar road was further aggravating the heat - and then suddenly we went to Live broadcasting.
Samir (TV Moderator): How is it going out there Amit, how is Major doing?
Me: Samir, I am reminded of the song from the movie Lakshya (Goal):
Barse chahe amber se aag,
Lipte chahe pairon se naag.
Even if it pours fire from the skies...
Even if snakes entangle my every stride...
Samir, the skies over Delhi have poured fire on us today, but let me ask Major about the state of his stride. Major, how are the legs doing?
Major: Yes, the skies have poured fire, and the legs want to stop. But I also have a mind, and the mind says I won’t stop! I will keep going! I will reach the finish line!
Me: Aaj Lakshya to paana hai (today, I have to reach my goal) Samir, we will not stop, we will not give up. We will reach the finish line.
Major: I am called physically challenged, but I am not so. I want to say that the ones who are really challenged are those who lack mental willpower. There are lots of people like me in India who are waiting for an opportunity to become physically active. Wake up India, if I can do it, you can do it.”
And so on and on we ran...the first time the Major slipped and fell on his face was when the cap of a water bottle came under the blade of his prosthetic. The second was when someone from behind banged into him. the third and the fourth time, when he lost his rhythm. Each time, he picked himself up and simply dusted his palms. There was no change of expression on his face. No sound escaped his mouth. There was a steely determination in him that I have never seen in another human being. He looked straight ahead. He never doubted or questioned his own ability. He ran as only a world champion can. He ran with the strength of his mind and for a passion close to his heart. He ran for those of us who doubt our own abilities...He ran for me...He ran for you...
With 200 meters to go, the Indian Tricolour materialized in his hands, given to him by his friends waiting alongside the road. He ran into the finish along with his friends Dr. Bharati and Colonel Rana. I stayed a few meters behind
I had witnessed firsthand what a soldier from the Indian Army was capable of doing.
On the 30th of September 2012, Kenya’s Edwin Kipyego ran the Airtel Delhi Half Marathon and finished first in a time of 1:00:55. When Edwin reached the finish line, the Major and I must have barely reached the 8 km marker.
But in my heart I have no doubt who really won the race that day. I know who my champion was. I had run alongside him all morning.
What a fantastic read Amit. Hats off to you. As a pacer fellow runners on the Bus often thank me profusely and tell me that I motivated them. As a Cardiac patient I am often told that I inspire others.ReplyDelete
But on that day, you ran as a Pacer in a race for one who cannot be anything but an inspiration to all.
Very inspiring read Amit. I remember meeting Major D.P Singh for a very brief moment this year at TCS Blore and what was the most striking about him is that he is a humble and simple person. The grit, determination and courage braving all what he had gone through really amazed me and did teach me a thing or two about life!such a strong personality and am happy to have made an inspiring friend for life from that race. Came back home with fond memories too. Thanks for sharing the journey and kudos on a noble deed of pacing a noble heart. Wishing you both the very best of journeys in future and continue inspiring us.ReplyDelete
Wonderful Amit !!!!! Very InspiringReplyDelete
Just very very inspiringReplyDelete
Amit, as always I had goosebumps reading what you've written. You are both heroes running in that heat! What a wonderful tale of determination and courage. And the photo is amazing too. I am so inspired I'm off for a run right now! Lisa JacksonReplyDelete
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Hats Off to Mjor DP... it is not the Phisical incapability that bounds a human being but the mental incapability... a sound body but insane mind are good for nothing but a sound mind can find a 100 ways out to do something even if the body does not permit... that's the strength of the WILL POWER...ReplyDelete
I too shed a tear reading this and realised it was not even a pale comparison to the blood shed on Kargil heights or the sweat on Delhi's roads. Hats off to MAJOR Singh and thanks for your very sesitive prose.
A thought raced through my mind: what if there is a marathon in Lahore and Major Singh participates as a messenger of peace and a challenger to the thought of mindless violence and war?
I appreciate your thoughts but w.r.t Indo-Pak I feel unless a political will is in place to erase the differences all other efforts will just be a passing event.Delete
What a fantastic account of a true story of grit and determination. Amit, you have well highlighted the lesson that Major Singh gives us as he lives it - that nothing is impossible. It stirs and wakes the latent champion within us all. Thanks a lot for this very motivating blog post.ReplyDelete
Firstly to emote in writing about someone else's dogged determination and perseverance is an effort in itself which who have done very well!
Secondly, Thank you for taking the time to talk about a soldier of our nation and that too a one who is an inspiration to all, simply put a man who is a living embodiment of overcoming physical and mental barriers.
Wonderful read. Very well written. I salute the human spirit that is Major DPReplyDelete
Hats Off to Major Singh - that's an incredible feat! And, a very moving post, Amit, do keep writing and inspiring...ReplyDelete
What a man, what a hero!ReplyDelete
I was questioning my training schedule just this morning. I know what I was missing... a role model. And now I have found one!!
I have tears in my eyes as I write this. Thanks Amit :-)ReplyDelete
I can only salute this gallant man. I know that India has many more heroes like him but Amit has really described this hero beyond words. Jai HindReplyDelete
Very inspiring, not just for runners but any human being who faces challenges in his life. Major Singh is a true hero!ReplyDelete
Thank you for this touching tribute to a true hero, Amit. The next time I pass India Gate, I will see it in a very different light.ReplyDelete
Amazing story, dear Amit....hats off to the indomitable soldier....so long as we have men like Major DP Singh, we can hope and dream....thank youReplyDelete
Major D.P. Singh is truly inspirational.
I think he personifies the old quotes like 'Never Give Up! ', and 'It ain't over till its over'.
Thank you for running with the Major and giving us a first hand account of the run.
Major Singh is an inspiration to mankind and I salute him with joined palms. Thank you Amit for sharing your journey with such a HERO!!!!! We runners always complain about the slightest discomfort - Major Singh has given me new energy in preparation for Comrades 2013!!!!ReplyDelete
Hats off to Major D.P.Singh for showing us how to behave like a Human... Thanks Amit for sharing the same and taking us through the whole race lively...ReplyDelete
Whew!! can't stop crying with pride and joy for Major Singh and your inspiring account..gosh Amit..u have a way with words as much as your feet have a way with the ground...thanks for sharing this and more power to Major Singh. Salaam!!ReplyDelete
Thanks for sharing this with us. Major Singh is such a huge inspiration for everyone, not just runners. I ran the ADHM and ran past you two and remember seeing the major vividly, wish I stopped and ran with you two for a while. Next time, I will.ReplyDelete
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Amit,Excellent Blog. Really Inspiring. Thanks for sharing with us. Please do keep writing such wonderful blogs & post it:)I salute to Major.ReplyDelete
Jai Hind !!!
Amit,Excellent Blog. Really Inspiring. Thanks for sharing with us. Please do keep writing such wonderful blogs & post it:)I salute to Major.ReplyDelete
Jai Hind !!!
Dear Amit... Tears simply rolled our eyes when we read this account..ReplyDelete
Truly motivating.. I loved the line about "Physically challenged are those who lack mental willpower"
Thanks for sharing this Amit
Very Inspiring ... Amitbhai ...ReplyDelete
wow amit im sorry i dont knw u but wow i feel like with all my body intact i shud be running a 100kms every time i go running if i had the mental toughness of the major (salute to him ) i shud be doin the badwater marathon every year...lol but hey im proud to be an indian nd even more prouder to hve soldiers of such magnanimous stature...all the best fr his future runs nd if he ever comes to madras/chennai he shud run with the CR's (Chennai runners...ReplyDelete
Actually I saw Major DP, when just coming out of JLN.ReplyDelete
I feel sorry that I missed an opportunity to run with him.
Hats off Major... no words to express
Amit, a salute to the Major and you.. Your dare to run was inspiring. Hope you continue to inspireReplyDelete
Thank you all for writing words of praise for the Major. Every word is deserved. I hope you help spread his story all over India and around the world.ReplyDelete
what a write.just superbReplyDelete
Hats off to both of you! Major, you made the nation proud!ReplyDelete
My salute to Major. His grit is undoubtedly inspiration for all runners.ReplyDelete
Salute to Major. You make us proud. You stand as a tower of inspiration. I missed running with you this year. Hope to see you next year. It would be a privilege and honor to run along with you.ReplyDelete
I salute you Major Singh. My eyes welled up reading this amazing account of grit and detrmination. You reinforces the belief that nothing is impossible but you have to have will power to do that. BRAVO.ReplyDelete
Amazing stuff Amit! Hats off to Major and you!ReplyDelete
Thank God for you Amit that we got to know more about Major D P Singh the runner. What an inspiration this man is! Had tears in my eyes reading your blog.ReplyDelete
Awesome story Amit.. Salute to Major Singh..ReplyDelete
Awesome. I salute this man. I have tears in my eyes not out of sympathy but because we take everything for granted.ReplyDelete
It has been a recharging effect, just the sight of him both at 2011 and the latest edition of ADHM! Brings up great emotions and pride for the organisation!ReplyDelete
True hero! Salute to Him!ReplyDelete
You are an amazing hero. Keep on going!ReplyDelete
what an amazing person Major DP Singh. A great motivator for all of usReplyDelete
A million salutes to this true soldier and a indomitable champion.ReplyDelete
Hats off to major for this amazing feat of running this race. And hats off to you for humanizing that effort so wonderfully for all of us. In fact when you talked about wearing socks and shoes in 30 sec, i was like " i-know-amit-writes-in detail-but-isnt this a bit-too-much types ? It was only later that the whole thing feel into place, and those lines made sense, Your writings ae a huge source of inspiration for a lot of us runners, and all of us really look forward to reading your blogs. Ramraj
Amit - You have this amazing ability to make us cry and laugh and motivate us through your writing. Definitely the story of Major Singh is immensely inspiring, but the story-telling is so much moving. Thank you for sharing this Amit.ReplyDelete
Hats off.. Major..!!ReplyDelete
Thanks for the wonderful inspirational story.. Amit
Brilliant Amit ! I have decided to stop complaining of small things on the day of my run like weather, bad roads etc. Really admire the courage of major. Long live india and its people.ReplyDelete
Superb! I'm so inspired. Amit, only you can capture something like this so candidly.ReplyDelete
Superb. You really have that gift of inspiring people through both action & words in a manner that makes us seem that you are no different from anyone around us. Your humbleness is what actually makes you a super human.ReplyDelete
Amitji I must congratulate you for excellent repoting on Major singh's bravery. In this respect I would like to add that fantacy and gaol has two steps.. to work.. on... one do you believe that you can doit( fantacy..) and second are you willing to do what it may take to..( realise fantacy) if beleif is yes your fantacy is converted in to goal and you be able to achive it.That is exactly what I did last when first time I ran Jaipur half.ReplyDelete
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I have run my second half at airtel Delhi half2013 on 30th Sept 2913.Finish in 2:36 comfortably and stood seventh in super veteren group. Now I plan to run stan chart Mumbai marathon 2013,on 20 Jan 2013 and finish Sub 5:00. I read your account of S&C mumbai marathon 2011 sub 5:00 hrs bus where you were the proud pace setter in S&C Mumbai i Dare to ru..I need your guidance 1.After sea link we will incounter one kilometer long climbup on pedder road what will the gradient of this up climb so that I may practice little hill climbing. I seek your general guidance on hydration, fuelling and walking breaks in marathon running. I am following marathon HalHadgen Noviece 2 program. God bless you. Hope to hear more from you.Maj P L Devand(retd)
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Amit, this is such a heart felt post. My salutes to the bravery of Major DP Singh. You are right that he ran for us - so that we may realize what we are capable of. Congrats to you too - you are a hero as well (even if a little behind Major D.P.Singh!)ReplyDelete
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